You are your word !

      Would you ever want your friends or family to refer to you as a flake ? NO ! I think not . Then why do some people always cancel at the last minute when they for sure stated they would be there or help you out when you need it ? Why do they give you a lame excuse ? And why do they not get that being a man or woman of his or her word is like one of the most valuable thing's you can do . Everyone will have more respect for you at home and in the work place . If you flake out on your friends that habit will show up every where in your life so just stop this bad ugly habit . And yes a bad ugly habit is just negative winning .

     Stop being  the person who gives excuses and start being a person that stick's to your word . Remember that when you give your word and follow through even if you are tired or your body just can't move . You need to fight and move through it and once you do you will be happy you did . You will feel strong and you will feel better your  friend's won't call you a flake . Being a flake or rather being someone that can not be counted on is a negative vibe and a negative vibe can be broken all you have to do is choose to do it . Don't listen to the negative voice telling you that you are tired and you don't feel well or don't feel like it  . Fight back fight this feeling .Once you choose to be the man or the woman of your word life will feel better and so will you .

    So glad you asked how you could stop this ugly habit that is bringing you down . Choose positive and  that means choose very carefully what you say and what you choose to do . If you say you will be there be there . Be someone that can be counted on at work and everywhere . That means to fight back when you don't feel good that's negative getting in the way it want's to win . Don't let it , make positive the winner . Put it in your head that your word is as good as gold . This attitude will follow you at work at home and with friends it will lead to positive relationships everywhere . Positive word's will get easier and you will start to choose your word's carefully and beautifully . Flaky just sound's flaky and unless it's the crust of my mom's apple pie I want nothing to do with it .

  If you are making plan's to meet me for my favorite cocktail shaken not stirred poured on the rock's then please don't flake .

                                                                          Cheer's Tilly

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